stolen thought
I agree with Erykah Badu when she said, "Pick your friends like you
pick your fruit." Don't spend major time with minor people. If there are
people in your life that continually disappoint you, break promises,
stomp on your dreams, too judgmental, have different values and don't
have your back during difficult times...that is not a friend.
To have a friend, be a friend. Sometimes in life as you grow, your friends will
either grow or go. Surround yourself with people who reflect your values, goals,
interests, and lifestyle. At first you think you're going to be alone, but
after a while new people show up in your life that make your life so much
sweeter and easier to endure. "Birds of a feather flock
together." If you're an eagle, don't hang around chickens: Chickens
Can't Fly!
(someone else)